Tips for white men dating a black women
Even if I wish they all had the social intelligence of Trevor Noah, most of them just don’t.Being close to my 21st birthday, I can say that I’ve seen a few try to slide into my dm's and red flags were usually quickly raised.Plus, you should be thankful he’s talking to you in the first place.It’s easy to fall for these guys because if you’ve hated yourself for so long, they seem like the key to social prestige. But nine times out of 10, you’ll never find out because next thing you know, this Will guy is dating Jessika, the blondest of the blondes….He also finds weird and mostly unasked ways to not exactly compliment you, but letting you know that it’s okay to be you because he gave you the permission to…?For example, you post a selfie with a caption about loving your curls and he replies saying that you should love your hair because he likes them.
Show less If you’re a brown girl who’s into guys, you probably know what I’ll be talking about here.
Boy, I have looked on the top of my fridge, under my bed and inside my container of shea butter and I have not found the moment when I asked for your opinion so why are you here.
Finally, the most evident red flag is that he usually talks bad of other women, saying that white women are this and that latina women are that, etc... Girls need to stand together, and you can’t let Jimmy get in between you and your sisters. He learned about your reality and he thinks you’re really cute. This dude was probably a type two when you met him, but you gave him a chance and he’s not so bad.
And that girl, is when you bounce, thank you, next.
This might sound silly to some, but this type needs to be mentioned.
All you want is to run your hand through his straight hair and say thank you as you look into his sparkly light eyes but actually, if I were you... You know about those “white girls who only date black guys,” you see the cornrows, you see the hoops, YOU KNOW. The main issue is that they do not usually respect other people of colour.