Subconscious mind dating
Even if you’re not tall or the best looking guy or superrich or whatever, if you’ve got these 5 traits, you’ll turn her on… Okay, so after you open a set, the objective is to systematically trigger these attraction switches. At base we humans want two basic things: to survive and to replicate.
This is done through DHVs or “Demonstrations of Higher Value.” Cool. Value doesn’t refer to some esoteric, abstract thing. Men seem to be attracted to replication value, such as youth, waist-to-hip ratio, and all that. Women seem to be attracted to survival value, such as high social status, leadership, wealth of resources.
Second, in this state of love, think about the qualities you want in a partner. Bruce Lipton reminds us that “details left out of your description, by default, will be determined by the subconscious mind, which if left to its own devices will list what your believes would be a good relationship.” Our subconscious mind may also lead us to someone because we are rebelling against what our parents or our community tells us is right for us.
Third, it’s difficult to become aware of the programming that is unconscious.
Have a demeanor like you’re celebrating like it’s the end of Ocean’s Eleven: “I need nothing from you. But you do want to show women you at least have direction in your life. And you live life on the edge, challenging yourself to take the risks to get there. Sharing your goals, dreams, and passions is one way to convey this. Sharing these stories about how you overcame odds puts you in a positive light and builds feelings of attraction in her for you. So much of our masculinity is wrapped up in having direction, giving our light to the world, and taking the necessary risks to make it happen.
Of the five switches, the most important to trigger IN FIELD, like in a bar or other public gathering, is “Preselection.” It’s the equivalent of a big pair of tits for us. As always, more important than “getting” women is serving a higher purpose than yourself.
A lot of guys think it’s impossible to approach a woman with guys in the group. If they start acting like a dick, handle them with class and respect. Show her that her life would be improved if she built an alignment with you. Step Two: When your answer comes, which usually comes in the form of a feeling, listen to it. Every day spend at least an hour to make your purpose a reality. Step Three: Next time you’re in set, share your passion with everyone. Help someone with their homework, take out the trash for your mother, if you’ve got a girl in your life open the car door for her.Don’t be a “getter,” be a “giver.” Don’t try to “get” her replication value from her for your gain. I wanted to make that point because when I first started off, I used to think DHV was about me and showing off. It’s about honest-to-God becoming a better man, which benefits others. Now that I’ve got that out of the way, let’s talk about these switches.Be someone with a lot of survivor value that’d she want to get for herself. All this means is you’re attractive to other women. Say “how’s your night going” to the bouncer, the bartender, and to the first people you see.If you’re anything like me, I always used to think looks and being nice was what attracted women.Because looks attract me, and who wants someone who’s mean?
The good news is that there are effective, new ways that can reprogram our unconscious minds to move them from injecting us with fear to bathing us in love. First, before we can reprogram the unconscious mind, we have to get clear about what our conscious mind wants and needs. Put your hand over your heart and imagine that you can breathe in love with every breath and breathe out love. Continue doing that for about 10 breaths in and out.