Separated and dating my husband
He may be focusing only on what he can make sense of.
And that probably is not you and your relationship.
The following article is written to women who are dealing with their husbands who have left them, but the same principles can also apply to men who are dealing with their wives who have left. “If it takes a year for him to figure things out, and then you have thirty more happy years together after that, wouldn’t it be worth it?
Calmly ask him to discuss his issues with you and see if you can’t resolve some issues.He who brings out the starry host one by one, and calls them each by name.Because of his great power and mighty strength, not one of them is missing. The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth.Odds are if your husband has resentments they have been festering for some time now.If you wish to save the relationship, be sure to show humility and respect as he reveals his relationship struggles with you.
Why do you say, O Jacob, and complain, O Israel, ‘My way is hidden from the LORD, my cause is disregarded by my God? He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom.