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Unless you just met him and bonded instantly, he's probably seen — or at least heard about — your dating disasters of the past. You've probably heard about how his last girlfriend was possessive, or needy, or crazy, or in a secret cult, or all of the above.
While these events may have been traumatizing for the both of you at the time, the positive spin is that you both know what doesn't work in a relationship with the other person.
If you've used the phrase "Oh, he's just my friend!
" to describe a close acquaintance, you should listen up, for I used to be one of you — the girl who friend-zoned someone so hard, that all aspects of love should have gone out the window.
While I don't regret the romantic misadventures I had before things clicked with my best friend and I, I definitely wish I could go back and tell myself that dating didn't have to be so difficult, or so heartbreaking — the key to true happiness was right in front of me the entire time.A date can simply be an event you've wanted to check out anyway, and probably would have, regardless of your romantic status. He might joke about your gross (yet satisfying) nail biting habit, or he's probably aware that one glass of wine too many makes you weirdly political in social settings. Your mood is elevated during his presence, even if it's when you're doing something stupid like snarking on movie selections.When you're dating, you're just cringing over anticipation of the moment when these habits come to light. He's the first one you call when you're down, and no matter what, he always knows what to say.Especially if he's somewhat of a social media over-sharer.If you both bond over something, dates won't be as hard to plan.
For example, if you're both psyched about the outdoors, a hike will never be boring.