Dating advice should i call him
If you want to show a man that you’re girlfriend material, don’t hook up with him on the first date.It will probably make him wonder if you would do the very same thing with every other Tom, Dick and Harry.When he asks if you want to go out and then says he’ll call later in the week, tell him something like this very kindly: “You know, I’m really looking forward to seeing you, we’ll have a good time! [Make sure you qualify that it’s this weekend so he doesn’t get the impression you’re so busy that you won’t have time for him.] It would be great if we could make our dinner plans now. If he doesn’t do either, it gives you some valuable insight.
Remember, he fell in love with the dynamic “you” who has her own interests and passions who wanted to make him a part of your life, not the whole darn thing.
Men are attracted to confident women who get the concept of “interdependence.” Interdependence requires that you’re both independent and dependent; that means you create sacred space for your relationship as well as sacred space for your work, passions and friends.
Don’t lose the things that are most important to you, and keep doing what you were doing before you started dating him: your Sunday morning yoga class, a yearly vacation with your college roommates, etc.
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