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An early 2016 study by Glamour, which polled 1,015 women ages 18-44, revealed that even though 47 percent of women said they had been attracted to another woman, 63 percent said they wouldn't date a man who has had sex with another man.The reason why women (and men) refuse to date us bi folks is because they believe several harmful stereotypes.They believe that we can't be monogamous, that we'll inevitably leave them for a person of another gender, that we're confused, or that we're closeted and gay. There is an assumption that there are always additional challenges to dating a bi person.I remember when I first came out, I thought the world was going to be my oyster.For my partner, it means that she is sexually attracted to men and women, but romantically attracted to women only.In addition, she is only romantically attracted to more masculine women, such as myself.And proof for them means that you're equally attracted to men and women, and have dated/slept with an equal number of men and women. Don't waste your time trying to convince people to date you.This is absolutely ridiculous and not a qualification for being bi. Besides, these aren't the people you really want to date anyway, right?
Even worse is the assumption that bisexuality is an excuse to be sex-crazed and promiscuous (which, BTW, is not something you need an excuse for if that is how you choose to live).Their partners might know what they identify as, but do they The commonly accepted definition of bisexuality is far outdated and, quite frankly, inadequate.It is not just the sexual attraction to both men and women.If you act like it's this huge secret or something of which to be ashamed, then the person with whom you're on a date will think that too. Perhaps you can casually drop how you've previously dated someone of another gender before. I'm not saying you ONLY have to date other bi folks, but I will say it's easier.I don't think it's a coincidence that the two long term relationships I've had since coming out were with other bi people.
I truly believe that there is a man, woman, or genderqueer person out there who would love to date your sexy bi self.