Am i a bad person for dating a married man context submitchanges is not updating the database
The older we get, the more inevitable it's going to be we date people who already have a marriage behind their belt.
We have the happy kind, the sad kind, and the in-between.
More often than not, former married people have tried it all in the bedroom because they lived in the "we're comfortable, so we can say what we really like phase" for, well, a long time.
In other words, they've graduated from the prestigious "How to really please a partner" college, and you get to be the lucky benefactor of this degree. He or she has been fully immersed in it, and he or she won't take anything less than the real thing.
It may take them a little longer to warm up to you, but if you've met them at all, you're clearly on the right path. Friends are family, and oftentimes they can be even more protective over a hurt friend because they received the unedited version of how this divorce went down (let's be honest, often parents don't get the full play-by-play for their own good.).
They saw it all, and they don't want to see it again.